Life with Jef and Sara

2009 update

noreply@blogger.com (JefandSara) — Tue, 29 Dec 2009 04:13:00 +0000

It's been a year since our page was updated, and so instead of waiting for Jef to post something (like I normally do), I opted to be pro-active for once and post something myself. I suspect my postings will not be as detailed as Jef's, but it will feel good to say something about life with Jef and Sara after such a great year. So many things have happened!

Jef and I moved up to Boston (okay, Newton, MA which is right next to Boston) July 1. We have a great apartment here and have both started new jobs as faculty in the psychology department at Boston College. All of us (Jef, Jethro, Ellie Mae, and I) have adjusted well. The cold weather this winter has been fun although did take

some getting used to - now that we have our proper

winter attire (including a little coat for Jethro) the cold isn't as bitter as it could be. Of course, the most e

xciting thing to happen to us this year was the on-going gestation - we will have our own little ba

by very soon (due January 19, 2010)!

We've done quite a bit of traveling this year,

from conference trips to Colorado and D.C., spending a week at the OuterBanks, NC with Jef's grad school friends, and visiting my family in LA for a week in October where my mom treated Jef and I to a tour around major sites in LA (including Olivera Street and the new Disney concert hall) and the family surprised us with a baby shower. In fact, Jef and I just returned from another nice visit up to Vermont (only 3 1/2 hours away from us now!) to celebrate Christmas with Jef's family. We had a great time - so

nice to see everybody, relax, and eat delicious home-made Christmas treats - and we were even treated to a surprise baby shower up there where we received lots of great goodies for our little one, including beautiful home-made gifts from Jef's mother

and grandmother. For people who have insisted that they didn't want a baby shower, we've actually made out pretty well - both of our families each threw us a shower as well as the department at BC.

I guess what I need to say is that life with Jef and Sara has been incredibly blessed. Things are going really well for the whole family, and we're eagerly awaiting to meet our baby. Just hoping he/she ("shim" as affectionately called by Jef's mom) will arrive a week early so Jef won't be teaching the week of his/her arrival (the due date is the same day as the first day of classes for BC!).

Visit to Boston

noreply@blogger.com (JefandSara) — Wed, 24 Dec 2008 20:28:00 +0000

En Garde!

In case you had not heard, poor Sara has been traveling tirelessly throughout the country on interviews at various colleges and universities. It has been stressful for Sara to have to travel so much (and for me and the dogs to be stuck at home without her!), but it is a testament to Sara's excellence in her field that so many schools are interested in her joining their faculty. And, of course, it is exciting for us to plan a major life-change in moving to a new city and taking on new academic positions. As the process is winding down I have joined Sara on a couple of visits, and one included a stop in Boston this past weekend. It was a very pleasant and informative trip, and as a great bonus we got to stay with our dear friends, Wendy and Erik Nelson. They were exceedingly gracious to lodge us at their beautiful home in Wellesley -- especially so close to the holidays! Definitely the highlight of our trip was sheltering ourselves in their cozy home from the blizzard that dumped a foot of snow on Boston while we were there. Wendy treated us to a lovely dinner including a spectacular homemade challah - which can be seen in the lower-right corner of the picture of Sara. (FYI, challah is a special braided bread eaten on Jewish holidays and the Sabbath. This was my first time eating it, and it was fantastic!)
The Nelson children - Rachel and Lauren - also entertained us with an impromptu concert of flute (Rachel) and violin (Lauren). Both played wonderfully before dissembling into a fencing demonstration using their instruments (shown above). This led into a full evening battle for intellectual and stochastic superiority in the ever-popular game of 'UNO'. Of course the adults were hapless when facing off against the prowess of the younger generation. Eventually, we just had to send the kids to bed so that the grown-ups could win a hand or two! And if all of this were not enough, Erik introduced us to the sublime (and intensely addictive) joy of "cup flipping". Haven't heard of it? Well, clearly you are behind the times, as this is all the rage in the most elite social circles! Check out the excitement in the following video...

Happy Holidays! -j

It's Beginning to Look A Lot Like Christmas!

noreply@blogger.com (JefandSara) — Mon, 08 Dec 2008 19:57:00 +0000

The holiday season has definitely coming upon us. Another piece of evidence is the arrival of the annual holiday mask made by Sara's talented grandmother, Lindsay. (Well, at least the arrival of a picture of the mask.) Each year, Lindsay creates a holiday mask and donates it to a local charity auction in Fort Collins, CO. This year's mask, pictured above, is quite wonderful... and rather appropriate for this time of year. Centered on the theme of transportation, the mask seemingly vibrates with the hustle and bustle of people coming and going, with footprints (and paw-prints!) zig-zagging across the piece... perhaps much like holiday shoppers out looking for that special gift for a loved-one. Striking on our society's concern over energy, the mask also emphasizes more energy-conscious modes of transportation, including public transportation such as buses and trolleys, and personal perambulation accomplished by bicycles, roller skates, and the good-ol' fashioned "shoe leather express". Consistent with this theme, the mask is coiffured with a lush garden of ivy and foliage. Perhaps I am reading a bit much into this piece, but I was most tickled by one of the details of the mask... specifically, rather "devilish" nature of the sole depiction of the most polluting form of personal transportation - the automobile. (A small car is located in the greenery just above the trolley on the left side of the photo.) The mask is certainly beautiful and illustrative of the artistic talent that runs throughout Sara's family! More holiday postings to come soon...

Thanksgiving '08

noreply@blogger.com (JefandSara) — Sun, 30 Nov 2008 04:28:00 +0000

We were blessed this year with a full Thanksgiving table... full of food, family, and friends! Sara's side of the family - the Morgans - was especially well represented. Aunt Nancy came up from Murrell's Inlet, and cousins Lee and Lindy made the trip from Fayetteville and Savannah, respectively. It felt really nice to provide Lee with a family getaway from the grind he is going through in his Marine infantry training. We also had a great time getting to know Lindy's fiance, Kenny, who was charming and full of fun. We were also joined by our friends Barry, Craig, and of course our buddy Blaine (with whom it has been suggested that Jef shares a brain). Sara cooked all day to provide a wonderful holiday turkey dinner, and Nancy made lots of yummy sides. Everyone else brought along a dish to fill out the table, so in the end we had much more food than we could even handle! It was a great day and a lovely first visit from cousin Lee and Lindy. Aunt Nancy was wonderfully generous in making potatoes and dressing, two cakes, and a luscious salmon dip appetizer. She snuck off early Friday morning, but we hope to see her again very soon! Below is a fun picture of Lee, Lindy, & Kenny during a tour of Sara's animal laboratory. We hope that everyone had a safe and joyous holiday!

Spring Cleaning Needs to Come Early!

noreply@blogger.com (JefandSara) — Tue, 25 Nov 2008 02:41:00 +0000

With all of my focus on cleaning up the leaves in the yard, everything else seems to be suffering a bit. This became brutally obvious when I found the pictured spore sitting right on my desk! A poor comment on the state of my office tidiness, perhaps, but I found it to be a rather pretty ornament and a whimsical distraction to the day's work.

Otherwise... the fall continues to unravel much the same, with Sara traveling to interview after interview and me holding down the fort with the pups while trying to get my applications in. (Guess I should have started on these a bit earlier!) We are looking forward to Thanksgiving with family and friends, and hopefully carving out some time to visit more family over the winter holidays.

Hoping this finds you all well... Jef

Deja Vu?

noreply@blogger.com (JefandSara) — Mon, 17 Nov 2008 01:14:00 +0000

Have I lost my mind? Am I so incredibly excited by the pile of leaves that we made last week that I am reposting about the same foliage again this week? You might think so, but actually this is not the case. After a scant one week since we cleared our back and front yards of leaves, we had an even larger haul this week. We again filled both of our yard waste barrels as well as an additional seven 30 pound biodegradable bags. Sadly, there were still a ton of leaves clinging to most of the trees -- taunting us -- a harbinger of the continued weekend work yet to be done over the next several weeks! At least this week Jethro and Ellie Mae got to play in the pile!

Fall in Durham

noreply@blogger.com (JefandSara) — Mon, 10 Nov 2008 16:58:00 +0000

We live on a wooded lot with about 40 trees of various sizes. This makes for an absolutely wonderful, serene home and the yard is simply delightful... until the leaves start falling! We have begun our battle to keep the leaves from smothering and killing our lawn, plants, and flowers on the ground. Sara and I spent all day on Sunday raking and blowing leaves, filling our two yard waste recycling containers plus nine heavy-duty biodegradable bags. We really can't complain about the leaves, though, given the raw splendor of natural color we have been treated to over the past couple of weeks. Unfortunately, I did not think to get out my camera until about a week past its peak, but it was still breathtaking. I suppose my brethren in Vermont will argue that our foliage pales in comparison to theirs, and for the sake of peaceful coexistence, I will acquiesce. Here is one picture of our neighborhood and another with Sara hard at work.

If you would like to see more pics of our neighborhood and backyard, you can check out our Snapfish album by clicking on this link.

Misia & Mike Rowe from "Dirty Jobs"

noreply@blogger.com (JefandSara) — Wed, 08 Oct 2008 20:59:00 +0000

Sara's sister, Misia, recently had a brush with fame! While preparing for graduate school, Misia is currently working at the La Brea Tar Pits, which are a famous cluster of tar pits located in Hancock Park in the urban heart of Los Angeles, CA. Asphalt (colloquially termed tar) has seeped up from the ground in this area for tens of thousands of years, forming hundreds of sticky pools that trapped animals and plants which happened to enter. Over time, the asphalt fossilized the remains, resulting in an incredibly rich collection of fossils dating from the last ice age. The research that Misia is doing is thus fascinating; but like most research endeavors, the day-to-day activities have a down-side. Specifically, for Misia it involves working in the pits themselves, which can be sticky & gunky, smelly, and... well, not too unlike Jef's laundry.

A recent upshot to Misia's work is that she was on-site for the filming of an episode of "Dirty Jobs" featuring Mike Rowe. This show, presented on the Discovery Channel, features jobs that involve people... well, getting dirty! The pic above shows Misia with the show's host.

For more info about La Brea, follow this link.
For more info about "Dirty Jobs", see this page.

Progress on Tony & Kelli's House

noreply@blogger.com (JefandSara) — Sat, 04 Oct 2008 21:18:00 +0000

Jef's brother, Tony, and his wife, Kelli, are working on construction of their new house in scenic Jericho, VT. The cellar is complete, along with most of the framing and the roof. The family is very excited about the new house and it's lovely view... and probably also ready to move out of the space they are sharing with Kelli's parents! :)
The picture above shows the house in its current, under-construction state.

The "Green Mountains" from the construction site. What a view!

Fresh and Fabulous

noreply@blogger.com (JefandSara) — Thu, 21 Feb 2008 04:58:00 +0000

Last summer, Sara and I obtained the flowers for our wedding (which were gorgeous!) from a lovely farm in Cedar Grove, NC called Maple Spring Gardens. This farm operates on the relatively new socio-economic model of food production, sales, and distribution called Community Supported Agriculture (CSA). This model aims at both increasing the quality of food and the quality of care given the land, plants and animals – while substantially reducing potential food losses and financial risks for the producers. In short, it allows a farm to insure a market for its product, and to deliver high-quality food to locals who commit to support the farm. Typically, individuals purchase a subscription or "share" of the farm's harvest, and receive a weekly dispersal of the produce throughout the growing season. As such, part of the farm's operating budget (or in some cases, the entire budget) is funded in advance by the "share-holders," and the farm is able to focus more on quality and reduce the risk of food waste or financial loss. Maple Spring Gardens, which engages in organic farming practices, operates both as a CSA and also as a vendor at local farmer's markets.

For Christmas, I bought Sara a share cut-flowers for this year, and we have just purchased a small share of vegetables and berries for 2008. So for several months in the spring/summer/fall of 2008 we will be receiving a small bunch of fresh flowers and a box of wonderfully fresh vegetables! We are really excited about this, as it will dovetail with our goal of eating healthier. (The farm also supplies a newsletter that includes recipes for the produce included.) If you are interested in eating healthy and supporting local farmers, we encourage you to look for a CSA in your own community. There are a number of listings of CSA's on the web, but I found this one returned the most locations. Try it out!

Gramma Cota Turns 90!

noreply@blogger.com (JefandSara) — Mon, 21 Jan 2008 21:18:00 +0000

Some milestones are more momentous than others, and becoming a nonagenarian is one of the rarest. On January 12, Jef's grandmother - Vera Cota - turned 90 years young , and we were honored to be there to celebrate with her and the rest of the Cota clan. Although her eyes may not have allowed her to clearly see everything going on, Gramma C was sharp as a tack, and was both emotionally moved and filled with mirth at the event. At one point she enjoyed a joke with her brother, Lyle, so heartily that she delayed a photo session for several minutes. This was the first occasion in 21 years in which all of Gramma's four children and 13 grandchildren were together. Also in attendance were 27 of Gramma's 30 great grandchildren. It was Sara's first chance to meet most of this clan, and somehow she managed to survive. The pic above is Sara & Jef with the guest of honor. Below is a photo Sara took of three of her new second-cousins: twins Sarah and Stephanie, and their cousin Rachael.

Christmas 2007

noreply@blogger.com (JefandSara) — Mon, 21 Jan 2008 20:53:00 +0000

Happy Holidays! They say that the most important thing to have for the holidays is family, and we were lucky to have just that. Sara's aunt Nancy came up from South Carolina to join us for Christmas, and we had a great time. Santa came along and filled all the stockings... even Ellie and Jethro's! They got a pile of rawhides, chew toys, and treats. Hopefully, this will keep Ellie from chewing up all the goodies Sara and I got for Xmas!

Thanksgiving 2007

noreply@blogger.com (JefandSara) — Mon, 21 Jan 2008 20:28:00 +0000

Tryptophan can be brutal! We enjoyed our first Thanksgiving as husband and wife and also in our new home, surrounded by nearly two dozen friends from the Durham area. The group comprised a wonderfully eclectic mix from the lab, our pool league, and the volleyball crowd. Sara cooked a wonderful turkey, which was accompanied by scrumptious sides brought by our friends. Thanks to everyone for joining us, and for bringing such great food! I wish I had a picture of the whole gang, but we were so busy cooking and then eating that I didn't pick up the camera until well after the meal. The following picture shows the evidence of the heavy meal (and tryptophan)! Apparently Katie (Monroe) is much more resistant to the effects of lotsa turkey on her serotonergic system, but Todd (Hershberger) is not so fortunate. Then again, it may be that Todd was one of the many helpful guests who assisted us in finishing off the (several) bottles of wine we had on hand! ;-)

Celebrate!

noreply@blogger.com (JefandSara) — Fri, 20 Jul 2007 04:18:00 +0000

Thanks to everyone who joined us for the wedding. We apologize for the delay on a hot July day in Durham, but we hope that the revelry at the reception made up for it. (Although we doubt you had more fun than we did!) It was a special day for both of us, and we could not have imagined a better day, especially having all of you there with us! :)

Who's who?

noreply@blogger.com (JefandSara) — Mon, 18 Jun 2007 02:42:00 +0000

Jef and Sara

Jef's parents, Leo and Arlene Lamoureux, with two of their grandchildren, Jacob and Aurora

Sara's parents, Bonnie and Janek Dombrowa

Cher Mostafa, Matron of Honor (with Sara!)

Tony Lamoureux, Best Man

Lots of New Items Added

blueskynet@verizon.net (Bonnie) — Wed, 13 Jun 2007 21:43:00 +0000

And please make note of a change to Gift Registry here

Check out the Details

blueskynet@verizon.net (Bonnie) — Mon, 11 Jun 2007 22:55:00 +0000

I've set up pages for different information categories for the Durham Wedding and after testing they seem pretty functional. Let me know of anything else we need.

Welcome!

blueskynet@verizon.net (Bonnie) — Sat, 09 Jun 2007 02:13:00 +0000

We hope to provide you with all the details we couldn't provide in those little envelopes arriving over the next few days.

Sara and Jef come from two very large families spread on the East Coast and spread on the West Coast with some stray members in between. We know that not everyone will be able to attend the big event on the 15th of July; for those who cannot make it--never fear--Janek and I intend to have the newlyweds out in the early fall for a West Coast reception.

So, for those of you who plan on attending this will be the place to get the latest and greatest information on what will be happening. Sara and Jef will be providing as much information as possible to make the trip to Durham a pleasant one. In the coming days I will be posting the calendar of events, activities, and maps for getting around.

And, if you have any questions, please feel free to leave comments!